Seven Ways to Build Up
Your Writing Confidence
by Ali Hale
Do you ever worry that your
writing isn’t good enough?
Maybe you’re scared to let
anyone read your latest short story. Or perhaps it’s worse than that – you find
yourself agonizing over every email that you write.
You’re not alone.
Most writers – even those who
make a living from their craft – lack confidence at times. Writing is, after
all, a daunting thing to do: you’re putting down your thoughts on the page and
hoping that they’ll be worthy of someone else’s time and attention.
A lack of confidence, though,
can be crippling. It leads writers to give up before they’ve even begun – or to
fret for hours over the simplest of writing tasks.
Whether you’re struggling to get
to grips with grammar or preparing to launch your third novel, you can become
more confident.
Here’s how.
#1: Practice Writing – Regularly
As a child, I had piano lessons.
I didn’t much like having to practice – but I knew that if I didn’t, I wouldn’t
get any better.
It’s the same with writing. Some
people love writing, others find it tedious: but either way, you’ll find that
the more you practice, the more you’ll improve.
That could mean:
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Spending ten minutes free-writing every morning
- Working through different writing exercises, so you get experience in several forms
- Deliberately working on the elements of writing that you find hard (e.g. if you write fiction, practice dialogue or description; if you write for work, practice those difficult emails)
- Writing a weekly post for your blog – no excuses!
- Write from a prompt (a word, phrase, question or image that inspires you)
Your writing exercises might be
for your eyes only – or you might choose to develop them into something more.
Author E.J. Newman’s From Dark
Places is a book of short stories that started as pieces written
from prompts sent in by her “story of the month club”.
#2: Read Widely
You’re probably already reading
a lot in your chosen genre or area – but try dipping into a book, magazine or
blog that’s very different from what you’d normally choose.
You’ll come across authors who
are:
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Journalistic and factual, giving you the details without making any judgements about them
Extremely personal and introspective, writing based on their own experiences
Unconventional and creative with their use of language, perhaps coining new words
…and so on.
There’s no one “correct” way to
write a book, a blog post, or an article – and the more you read, the more
you’ll realise that lots of different styles can be effective. You’ll learn new
techniques, and you’ll also get a better feel for your own voice and
style (look at what resonates with you – and what turns you off completely).
#3: Take Time Over Your Writing
If you don’t like writing, or if
you find it anxiety-provoking, then you might be tempted to get it over with as
quickly as possible.
That’s not a great way to build
your confidence. No writer – not even Shakespeare! – can produce a perfect
piece of work in just one draft. By taking a little extra time to edit your
work, you’ll realise that you can:
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Spot clumsy or ambiguous sentences and correct them
Change words that aren’t quite right
Fix any typos or spelling mistakes that have crept in
I often advise writers to write
a basic plan then produce a quick first draft, without worrying too much about
quality: that way, they don’t get bogged down trying to perfect the first
paragraph. After that, though, it’s important to edit rigorously. You’ll feel
more confident about your work when you know you’ve given it enough time and
attention.
#4: Learn About Writing
I’ve been writing with serious
intent (i.e. hoping to get published!) for thirteen years now – half my
lifetime. I’ve read dozens of books and ebooks about writing, I’ve subscribed
to a writing magazine, I’ve taken several online courses, and I’ve completed an
M.A. in Creative Writing.
Obviously, I wouldn’t have
progressed very far at all if I didn’t actually write (see #1!) – but I learnt
a lot about the theory and practice of writing from all these resources.
Whether you’re a brand-new
writer or an old hand, there’s something you can learn. Look out for:
Blogs on writing (like this one) – a great place to start learning for free.
Books about your specific area or genre – try your library
Specialised ebooks and ecourses
Writing conferences where you can attend lectures and workshops
Degree programs – a big investment of time and money, but a great way to study writing in a thorough and rigorous way, alongside other students
#5: Ask For Feedback
This one requires a bit of
bravery … but it’s a great way to give your writing confidence a real boost.
Ask someone for feedback.
Ideally, pick a writer or tutor who you know and trust – you want them to be
honest but also thoughtful.
Get them to tell you what you’re
already doing well (because there’ll be plenty of good things in your work!)
And ask them what you could improve on. I know it can be quite daunting to have
your work critiqued … but once you’ve edited a piece based on feedback, you’ll
be able to have real confidence in it.
#6: Share Your Work With an
Audience
One great way to boost your
confidence is to have appreciative readers for your work. But where do you find
them?
The Web 2.0 era has made
publication accessible to anyone with an internet connection. Sites like
Blogger.com are free and extremely easy to get started with, and allow you to
publish your writing online.
You might even choose to put
together an ebook for people to download and read. You can create this using a
word processing program (like Open Office or Microsoft Word) and then convert
it to a .pdf file, which can be read on any type of computer and on many devices
like Tablet computers and ebook readers.
#7: Submit Your Work for
Publication
One of the best ways to achieve
publication is to send a guest post to a big blog. This can be a pretty
daunting thing to do … but it’s a huge confidence boost if you get your post
accepted. Follow the tips above and make it as good as you can before sending
it in – and make sure you follow any submission guidelines.
You might think that you have to
already be a big “name” in the writing or blogging world in order to get published,
but this simply isn’t true: editors care about the quality of your writing and
the professionalism of your approach.
If you’re a fiction writer, try entering
competitions – winning a prize, or even being shortlisted, is a
great validation of your work.
And if you’re aiming to write
for magazines as a freelancer, try sending in fillers or letters to the editor
– a great first step in making contact and seeing your name in print.
Keep Moving Forwards – However
You Feel
Maybe it seems like other
writers have far more confidence than you. You see them chatting away at
conferences, or you look at their work on big blogs or you read their
prize-winning competition entries … and you think if only I was as confident as
them.
Perhaps you already are. Maybe
they spent a week screwing up their courage to send in that competition entry,
or they had to take a deep breath and conquer their nerves before striking up a
conversation with a stranger at that conference.
As you write more (regardless of
how you feel) and as you put your work out there in the world, you’ll find that
you gradually become more confident and comfortable with your writing.
What one step could you take
today to help boost your writing confidence? Pick something from the list above
– or add your own ideas in the comments!
You can find Ali Luke posting
all over the blogosphere – but her home base is on her own blog, Aliventures.
If you want to get more writing done, check out her post How to Write Thousands of Words Every
Single Week and follow the eight simple steps there.